我的真命天子/真命天女

不要错放了幸福温暖的手~~~~~~~~

往往许多人在抉择伴侣时，容易东想西想，不知所措，
就是因为害怕一时做错决定，看错人，造成终生的遗憾。

诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说：“此时此刻在地球上，约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣，就看你先遇到哪一个。
如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前，你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜、互相信赖的深层关系，那后者就会变成你的好朋友。
但是若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系，感情就容易动摇、变心，
直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情，才是幸福的开始，漂泊的结束。

爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要靠“际遇”，是上天的安排，但是“持续地爱一个人”就要靠“努力”。
在爱情的经营中，顺畅运转的要素就是沟通、体谅、包容与自制 (面临诱惑有所自制)。
有许多人总是“际遇”所迷惑与苦恼，意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散，而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。
所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的Mr. or Miss Right，而是问说在眼前的伴侣关系中，我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度，若没有培养出经营幸福的能力，就算真的Mr. or Miss Right出现在你身边，幸福依然会错过的。
而活在犹疑与遗憾当中，这不就是许多“爱情虚无症”的遭遇与心态吗？

若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣，不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了，我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱，就是“近亲生慢侮”，也就是经济学中的铁律“边际效益递减法则”。跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木与忽视，而新鲜的“际遇”总是那么动人可爱。

在感情对待中，难免有摩擦与无心的伤害，而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人，当然是跟我们在一起最久、最亲近的人。而新欢呢，又还没开始有得罪你的机会，再加上他的刻意讨好，所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱，旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。
但别忘了，新欢身上总是有不确定的未知数，旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感、确定感、信赖感。
千万不要随便在偶然的“际遇”中迷失了自己，错放了幸福温暖的手。。。

所以萧伯纳的话，是要提醒情人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一，应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上，同时也提醒我们“弱水三千只取一瓢饮”若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣，就不要再三心二意了，因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个，所以要知福惜福、活在当下。

当你收到这封信后，如果你未婚，那么你将会得到一份意想不到的好姻缘。
如果你已婚，那你的婚姻生活将更幸福、美满。

What Lim Ai Mei Means

You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is. You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long. You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start. You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated. You master any and all skills easily. You don't have to work hard for what you want. You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you'll knock down anyone who gets in your way! You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

What Anmy Lim Means

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated. You master any and all skills easily. You don't have to work hard for what you want. You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you'll knock down anyone who gets in your way! You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in. You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising. You may miss out by not settling down, but you're too busy having fun to care. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is. You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long. You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

Footprints

One night a man had a dream.

He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand;
one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in hislife.
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it.

"Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in mylife,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."

The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child,
I loveyou and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of Footprints,
it was then that I carried you."

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This story remind me that The Lord always be with us.
No matter what happen of you~~~ is happy, sad or ....
HE always there accompany you.
Trust and Pray..

⊕一辈子的朋友⊕

记得我们是一辈子ㄉ好朋友..
噢！不是...是永远ㄉ好朋友....
不管如何请记得你有一个可爱ㄉ好朋友....
记得我们是一辈子ㄉ好朋友..
噢！不是...是永远ㄉ好朋友....
不管如何请记得你有一个可爱ㄉ好朋友....

当我们对一个朋友付出很多感情，
最后，大家的关系却决裂的时候，
我们会伤心地告诉自己，以后再也不要对朋友投入那么多的感情。

你愈把他当作知己，你对他的期待也愈高。
你愈付出感情，愈觉得有些事情是理所当然的。
为了利益而反目，那不值得可惜，
经不起利益考验，证明你没有付出最真挚的感情。

为了一些原则和误会而反目，
那才是叫人难过的。
那么，不如不要再对新相识的朋友付出感情。
然而，不付出感情，又怎可能交到朋友？

原来，问题不是我们付出太多感情，
而是我们不愿意坦白。
你以为不用说得那么清楚，
其实，是有必要的。
你以为不能那么坦白，其实，有些事情无法解决时，
坦白是最好的方法。

我以前不会这样做，
然而，为了不再失去我挚爱的朋友，
我以后会坦白。

你不知道怎样拒绝他的提议，
不如坦白告诉他，而不是另外找借口拒绝他。
你不喜欢他对你做的一些事情，
不如坦白告诉他。
你不同意他的观点，大可坦白说出你的看法。
坦白一点，你可能会交少一些朋友，
但你会交多一些真正的朋友。

记得一位天使这样说........
生气(anger) 和危险(danger)
只有一字之隔。

美丽的年轻人是天然形成，
美丽的老年人才是艺术作品。
舌头的重量微不足道，
但少有人可控制它。
许多朋友进出你的生命，
但是只有真正的朋友会在你的心里留下脚印。

要操控自己，用你的头；
要指挥别人，用你的心。
生气(anger)和危险(danger)
只有一字之隔。
如果别人背叛你一次，那是他的错；
如果他背叛你二次，那是你的错。　
心胸远大的人谈理想；
一般的人批评事情；
心胸狭小的人道人长短。

上帝给每只小鸟牠的食物，但是他不会把食物丢到牠的巢里。
失去金钱的人，失去很多；失去朋友的人，失去更多；
失去信心的人，失去所有。

你和我是朋友，你带来另一位朋友，
我们就有三个朋友，我们开始成为一个小组。
就像一个圈圈，没有开始也没有结束.....

希望我们是一辈子的朋友...